So 2007 has begun... how are you doing so far?
Ok, so most people I know are not resolution makers, Ian included. Actually most are anti-resolution makers. This isn't because they don't have goals, plans or dreams they hope to accomplish, but because the whole idea of making resolutions (usually unachievable resolutions at that) and then breaking them in the first week is ludicrous to them. I guess I partially agree... BUT I still make them. I just have to add a disclaimer in saying that I don't make flippant resolutions... and there's a process to my goal making. First, I look back at the last year and see where I've been... then consider where I think I'm going... how I think that might need some changes... and then make some Goals for 2007. They're not resolutions... because with my very inadequate discipline (hehehe - lazy procrastinator!), I'm bound to fail... especially the harder I try to accomplish them as a "task" (aka. resolution to fulfill). So instead I make Goals for the Year, with action plans, and give myself some liberty to tweak them as necessary. Doesn't that sound much better? Oh it does also help that this year I realized that all I need is a few (like 5 or 6 for the whole year) simple (aka do-able ones) goals. And I made sure they were Important. (ie: One is Enjoy E ! Simple. Action Plan -> Accomplished through intentionally spending time with her. Recording her milestones. And doing things like reflecting on what she teaches me, how she is growing and recording it through pictures, scrapbooking and journaling.) See, not so bad.
Oh, I also (not a goal, but this is a good time to kick my butt into gear) did some much needed cleaning up of stuff around the house as 2007 rolled in. Mostly it was organizational things I had let pile up. I think I would like to stay more organized and have a set way of keeping track of what needs to be done... but I will work on that. One resource a friend (Corrie Haffly) has enlightened me with is actually a system of which I might try some pieces. Specifically, I like the Pickle Jar and glorified To Do List . See David Seah's site for more explanation. Also a big organization step accomplished in the Spencer Household is helping Ian get more organized. Yeah! (It also makes me feel better NOT seeing his papers littered all over the apartment...hehehe).
Well, Happy New Year (and Resolution/Goal Making, if you do that)!!